{"id":4707,"date":"2017-02-27T00:58:22","date_gmt":"2017-02-26T19:28:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nuclearrambo.com\/wordpress\/?p=4707"},"modified":"2024-10-04T13:08:05","modified_gmt":"2024-10-04T07:38:05","slug":"increased-self-confidence-just-3-months","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nuclearrambo.com\/wordpress\/increased-self-confidence-just-3-months\/","title":{"rendered":"How i increased my self confidence in just 3 months"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Building self confidence after so many years of it being absent, can be a truly hard thing to achieve. I have had problems with self confidence for as long as i can remember. If you are reading this, then you probably had or have problems with growing your own self esteem.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being a person that lacks self confidence, it is extremely hard to communicate efficiently with people. It is crucial for it to be within standard values to maintain a good conversation with someone and benefit from it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lack of self confidence is associated mostly with introverted people. Why? Because they are subjected to bullying in kindergarten, elementary school, high school, college, university, other parts of their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depression could be a definitive result of lacking self confidence. Depression is like the final stage to where you endanger your own being. Eventually, one does not feel like he\/she should live anymore in this world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019d like you to hear my story. Throughout my childhood, i have been subjected to numerous obstacles that would not allow my personality to get to extreme high level that is right now.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Before I started school, I had no problems communicating with my family and friends. It was not bad being the center of attention. Just a bit later after I started school, some of my classmates figured out I was an Introvert (a new term used by me \u2026 was not present at that time because I was too young) . Click here<\/a> to find more about what an introvert is .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everyday bullying was like a normal part of my life. Giving money, food, getting a beating, eventually leading to self confidence meltdown.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Only 1 year was required for that meltdown to happen. I have never recovered since then, they were the most agonizing days of my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the present, I have a hint of depression and still a low level self confidence. Mornings are hell because of job (another agonizing part of my life).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I have researched about most topics in my life, psychology and spiritual concerns intrigued me the most.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I managed to find some techniques to gain some of my lost self confidence even though it will take a lot of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Abraham Maslow posted in his 1943 paper, a theory that defines the psychological development of a human being. He created this hierarchy of needs. Surprising enough, self esteem and self confidence are key points on that pyramid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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What did I do to gain a portion of that self confidence back?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n